Question 1

Who is the Relationship Agreement for?

Accepted Answer

The Relationship Agreement is designed for any two-partner relationship — monogamous, polyamorous, open, or any other structure. It's inclusive of all genders, orientations, and relationship styles.

Question 2

Who is the Polycule Agreement for?

Accepted Answer

Our Polycule Agreement is designed so all kinds of polyamorists can use it: relationship anarchists, solo polyamorists, egalitarian poly folks, even swingers. It's flexible enough for polycules where all the partners can't all be in the same room — for example, maybe the polycule has metamours that are parallel, navigating a conflict, juggling mismatched schedules, or living long-distance.

Question 3

How long does it take to complete?

Accepted Answer

Most people spend between 1–3 hours going through the questionnaire together. We recommend taking breaks and revisiting sections that spark deeper conversation.

Question 4

Who should be involved in filling out the questionnaire?

Accepted Answer

All parties involved in the relationship should contribute to the questionnaire to ensure that the agreement reflects everyone's perspectives and needs. We encourage open discussions among partners to facilitate shared understanding and consensus.

Question 5

Can I save my progress and come back later?

Accepted Answer

Yes, you can save your progress at any point and return to complete the questionnaire at your convenience. Your answers are securely stored and confidential.

Question 6

Do I need to use the agreement immediately after purchasing?

Accepted Answer

Not at all — the agreement is designed to be flexible. It doesn't expire, and you can take all the time you need to work on it. Until you hit the submit button, you can return to it as often as you like. Whether you choose to complete it in one sitting or revisit sections over time, there's no rush and no pressure.

Question 7

Can I edit the agreement after it's generated?

Accepted Answer

You'll receive your agreement as a PDF that you can save, print, and annotate however you like. The Polycule Agreement is specifically designed for multiple rounds of edits, so you can revisit and update it as your polycule evolves. For the Relationship Agreement, if your relationship changes significantly and you'd like a fresh version, you can purchase a new round.

Question 8

Is there a discount for multiple agreements?

Accepted Answer

Yes! Once you submit your Relationship Agreement, you'll receive an extra 20% discount code that can be used up to two times to purchase agreements for additional partners. It's a great way to extend the benefits of clear communication and shared understanding to other relationships.

Question 9

Is the agreement legally binding?

Accepted Answer

No, this is not a legal document. It's a relationship tool designed to facilitate communication, set expectations, and create mutual understanding between partners.

Question 10

What topics does the questionnaire cover?

Accepted Answer

Both questionnaires span key areas including love & commitment, boundaries, relationship structure, finances, communication, domestic life, intimacy & sexuality, and growth & evolution. The Polycule Agreement also covers multi-partner scheduling and hierarchy dynamics.

Question 11

Is my information secure?

Accepted Answer

Absolutely. We prioritize the confidentiality and security of your personal information. All data from your questionnaire responses are encrypted and securely stored, accessible only to you and our team as necessary for creating your agreement.

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