Decolonizing Love
Is Anyone on the Left Pure Enough?
When the chronically online gentrify leftism.
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Sneakyarchy: But Babe You Said You're Not Hierarchical!
Why Good Intentions Alone Won't Make You an Egalitarian Partner
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A Dead French Anthropologist Is Why You Think Egalitarian Polyamory is Difficult
Unlearning Hierarchy in Love
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Radical Consciousness, Colonial Tools: How the Left Addresses Harm and How It Can Do Better
Reclaiming Accountability from Cancel Culture: Skills for Addressing Harm in Community
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What I’ve Learned From My Lifelong Journey In Polyamory
I’ve been non-monogamous since my teens. Here are five things I’ve learned.
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Dating Across the Divide: How Transparency-Prioritizing and Autonomy-Prioritizing Polyamorists Can Actually Make It Work
Strategies for Loving Across Different Poly Frameworks Without Losing Yourself
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Decolonizing Black Love
From the archives, November 2023. Exploring the wounds of colonialism and slavery that still haunt Black love in the diaspora, and the path toward liberation in romantic love.
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They Want You to Feel Dirty for Being Polyamorous
Where Poly Shame Comes From, How It Shows Up, and How to Decolonize It: A Path to Body and Mind Liberation
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The Boundary War in Polyamory
When one partner's need for freedom clashes with the other's need for transparency
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The Grief Nobody Warned You About in Polyamory
Why polyamory needs grief rituals, and what decolonized death work already knows
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